Sex Somnia... is when one mate "uncontrollably" has sexual intercourse
with their partner while they are sound asleep... and, while waking,
both partners agree that they do not want this to happen and that it
is damaging their relationship.
Sex Somnia is a karmic solution to a knotty problem in reincarnation.
Most couples have had several past lives where they have experienced
one another sexually. Since sex education has only recently been a
priority, most couples had sex in the past with no instruction. More
often than not, this created sexual disasters between mates resulting in
unhealed past life karma. Here is how:
Partner Initiating Sex:
In past lives, the partner who initiated
sex was always the one who complained about their mate being "out of control".
They refused to believe that their mate was handling their sexual desires
the best they knew how.
Now they are the one who is "out of control" and unable to master their own
desires. The partner who initiates sex while asleep will be completely
unaware of it... until they wake up and are informed of what happened while
they were sleeping by their partner as well as by any physical evidence.
The initiating partner will feel guilt and shame over the incident as well
as helplessness at their own lack of control.
Partner Receiving Sex:
In past lives, the partner who received sex
was always the one who foisted sex on their mate because they were "out of
control". Often it was because they were so conflicted about sex that they
"got it over with" quickly.
Now they are suffering from their partner being "out of control". The partner
who receives sex while asleep will be unable to avoid it unless they leave
their house. The receiving partner will feel anger over the incident as well
as residual fearfulness of their sleeping mate.
Sex Somnia is not one partner "helping themselves": it is a chronic
problem with these symptoms.
Initiating Partner Officially Asleep:
The partner initiating
sex does so while they are sound asleep... and does so when they do not
want to have sex. They are officially asleep as measured by machines.
Initiating Partner Unresponsive:
The partner initiating sex
cannot be awakened by their mate... who has exhausted all the means
of waking them up (screaming, shaking, using water or mega-phones).
Receiving Partner Raped:
The partner receiving sex would describe
the Sex Somnia as being rape not love. The initiating partner does not
engage in foreplay. The receiving partner can ask for what they want but
they will be ignored. The sex will continue on auto pilot until the
sexual intercourse is completed.
Receiving Partner Remembers:
The partner receiving sex is the
only one who remembers what went on during the episode of Sex Somnia.
These nightmarish memories will naturally cause them to withdraw from
their partner. This causes ongoing damage to a relationship that otherwise
would be loving and contented.
Sex Somnia can destroy a relationship. As loving as the couple can be
during the day, that can all be undone at night. The longer the relationship
issues remain unhealed, the worse the Sex Somnia can become.
When it gets really bad, the couple will forced to retire into separate
bedrooms behind closed doors that are locked and bolted. Sex Somnia can
result in sleepwalking where the initiating mate will seek out their partner.
Many times, couples will end up divorcing before they reach this desperate level.
The Sex Somnia will continue until the partners look back into their past lives,
connect with what happened sexually back then, and heal those issues. Sexual
problems - especially those which have been repeated through many lives - can
be difficult to heal but they can be healed with time and knowledge.
Sex Somnia between the couple was not agreed to lightly but soberly and
reverently to heal a deep seated wound between them. Until the couple
heals the long standing issues between them, the Sex-Somnia will continue
by night to weaken the relationship that they are trying to hard to keep
loving by day.